"Before beginning a Hunt, it is wise to ask someone what you are looking for before you begin looking for"-the little instruction book Pooh, inspired by AA Milne Where are women today? To address women's number one rule is to go where women go. Fish stocked in barrels, but make sure the barrels contain salmon and not sharks! The two main options open to you is to go where you know women looking for men or go to where women hang out. The first approach involves the use of the Internet, speed dating, personal ads and agencies. The main advantage of this method is that the original filter (ie to decide whether the woman is looking for a man) has already been done - is like a fish jump in your net. The big problem is that every woman has a great selection and you can get filtered out of search! You should present yourself in the best possible light, accentuating the positive you, eliminating the negative and marketing yourself. The second approach is to reach the place where women are not necessarily looking for a partner, talking to them and asking for their contact details or a date. It seems more dangerous, and while the chances of getting a 'no' growth, there are more choices and women appreciate men who do this kind of effort. This is more like fishing in the sea - the chances of reducing bite, but the selection is better. You just have to cast your line more often and be prepared for a shark bite!
Finally, there are places where girls hang out and there are places where men friends - go where the girls. The trick here is to decide what kind of woman you want and put yourself in this target rich environment. Go where the girls is the charm in the evening. Use your strategy to get a phone number, email or the date and then move on whether you succeed or not.
Contact with the women you know are looking for a person
Internet
The Internet may be free, readily accessible, you can search for matches and this can be managed safely and securely from your home. Moreover, the Internet is a great place to practice talking with women. No need to meet them and you can practice your conversation skills and humor. You can use chat rooms to gain confidence in all of anonymity, starting perhaps as part of a group and then proceed to one-to-one conversations. You can also use e-mail and send a message to introduce yourself to the full. Internet dating offers more options.
Speed Dating
The beauty of speed dating lies in its simplicity and no-nonsense approach. The principle is to take equal numbers of men and women, put them in a room and ensuring they have a few minutes to chat with each member of the opposite sex.
As with all the opportunities available to you, advice should be to give it a try, not just once but four or five times, at least in different places and with different organizers. Confidence comes from doing.
As with everything before you start to get a strategy and plan. Then you can go for events that know what they do.
Dating Agencies
Dating agencies are the physical equivalent cyber dating online and the points are equally applicable here. The agencies are often considered old-fashioned, slow and long winded, but still have their place, particularly in specialized fields.
Primarily, you get what you pay for. The more money you must pay a further barrier to entry is the most women who choose (it should be!) In the books. Therefore, organisms have evolved to operate in niche markets like the pros.
Personal Ads
Personal ad dating, mostly through newspapers, has always suffered the stigma of smacking of desperation and if new methods involving premium rate phone messages and even text messaging is a breakthrough, although it can be expensive.
It is a fact of life that women placing ads get more responses than men - on average should be three times greater. I'm not sure if this is indicative of the desperation of men who make more effort to contact or a more selective nature of women!
From my experience, I got much more success responding to ads of women in relation to what I myself placed, and as techniques improved my communication and to develop what worked the response rate improved.
Going where women Go
The second method of meeting women is to simply go where they go. Have you any idea about the kind of woman you want to meet and then think about where we socialize and hang out. Look for the target rich environments.
This review will go and then determine if your type of woman would go there. Then, develop a strategy on how to approach her.
Pubs
In general there are good places to meet women who tend to be male
Bars
When it comes to meeting women is not all bars are created equal. Some bars are much more conducive to meeting and conversations with women. Decide which is which by spending time there.
Coffee Bars
Cafes newlines singles. It is pleasant and women like to go there to spend time together without stress.
Clubs / Classes
Whichever event you choose, keep in mind your target woman.
Fitness
Women tend not to go to the gym waiting to be approached, may have been approached before, it may have areas of strength to the maximum.
Holiday
Holidays can be good places to meet women, especially if you go to a theme or other holidays where you know that singles will meet single women with similar interests.
Nightclubs
Nightclubs seems to be ideal, but very often a night out at the local hotspot seems to leave you with nothing more than a hangover and a hole in your wallet. The odds seem to be in your favor, but the company often fails. You should develop a strategy.
Places
It's easy to meet women at parties. Do not stick to men or women who already know but mingle and socialize.
Shopping
Everyone needs to shop, and most women enjoy shopping. Therefore, when you know the type of woman you want, you know where the food stores for clothes and other goods.
Social Events
In your new life social event is an excellent opportunity to meet women. It is a good motto will decline invitations to social events or work-related friends, or clubs. Say yes whenever you can.
Trip
Travelling by public transport provides many opportunities to talk to women. This applies to trains, planes, buses and coaches. Again, that through some discussions you could have and preparation.
Jobs
The work can be a good place to meet women, but similar problems can outweigh the benefits. These are the distractions caused, while the relationship is and what happens when it ends. It is generally preferable to keep the work and dates separately.
Friends / Relations
Finally, do not overlook the obvious. Women want men to meet with their friends rather than getting, so do not forget to tell you all you want and ask if they are potential candidates.
Wednesday, September 28, 2011
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