Here are 54 tips for dealing with women. These tips are designed to get you to think about the whole process of meeting women differently than they probably do now.
I include places to meet women, but internally things for you to work on so you ready to meet good women.
54 TIPS FOR MAKING WOMEN, tips 10-10
1: Be Your Best
Be in top shape you can, dress in an elegant way, make sure you are well groomed and take care of your smile. Be the greatest man in the world, but matching pants and socks in combination with soil under your nails will turn off.
2: Go online young
Dating sites can be great. Be sure to put up 2 pictures. One is a clothing business and the other will be casual. Get a professional to do them. Do not write a book about yourself. Just say that you are looking for a self-sufficient woman laughed over coffee.
3: Develop your sense of humor
Women want to have fun and laugh, to love a man with a sense of humor. Think you can not do? Think again. Not trying to go on tour and hit the comedy club circuit. Just to be able to see the world in a way funnier than you are now. There are categories of comedy, books, seminars, courses improvisation and many more ways for you to be funny.
4: Remember, dating is like sales
There is a lot of rejection in sales, if they have never been to this before. We should consider finding a girl of your dreams as a process where you will probably hear the word not much you can hear the word yes (of course, you will find the girl of your dreams out of the gate).
5: Never take it personally Women
This effort, combined with the edge 4, will run into many women who are not suitable for you, want nothing to do with you, they disappear after 2 dates, even though it seemed to have a good time, and many other frustrating things . Keep the good humor to the process and remember that you only need one good woman.
6: Find out what a good woman
You will be looking for a clinically healthy woman can speak for it self, has a good sense of humor, gives a high integrity, responsible and flexible in its approach to life.
7: Do not overestimate the occurrence
Looks like it comes from a famous magazine cover with long, curly hair and a perfect shape. You are either afraid to approach or be willing to put up with anything to be with her. Remember, you want a good woman to not only give her a pass for bad behavior and should not be afraid to talk to her!
8: Confidence is sexy
The basketball coach John Wooden was great (John Wooden was perhaps the best college basketball coach in history). Groups was great because it was the same whether they were winning, losing or tied. They were always so cool, calculated approach. Should be the same with women. Whether you have 4 women that you are dating now or have you rejected 30 times in a row, you still need to show the world that you're a guy who is cool. The right woman will notice this, but never will if you let the loss affect your game.
9: Never talk sex
Good women do not respond to this kind of speech when perform alone. Stay away from talking about this or any other kind of personal talk with us. Do not tell her yet and want to kiss her. Why? Most every guy talking about sex, physical contact, etc., and are sick of it!
10: The lines are OUT
It PERSON. Just talk to her. Say hello and introduce yourself with a smile. If this is naturally attracted to you, help you talk to her. If not, then it will not help you. The largest line in the world can not overcome not like the way they look, so stop putting a trip head for yourself with the lines. Just talk to her.
54 TIPS FOR MAKING WOMEN, tips 11-20
11: is a real person and ask for the number
When the meeting does not offer weak business card or stammer that you might want to see it some time. Do you think children read romance novels in charge, the white horse and then look away as they offer their business card? Look in her eyes, smile and ask for her number. She may reject you, but at least it will make a strong game.
12: Be a gentleman
Good women are responding to your open their doors, pulling out their chair, staring into their eyes when talking to them, not looking at the waitress (or other women) and other things you might have thought went out with Cary Grant movies. I am here to tell you that these things are alive and well, if you want to find a good woman.
13: Do not exert pressure on the
Many types of rush to rejection. They get a good woman who is naturally attracted to them and destroy the call too, all the space in order to quickly and let it know that. Women take a more slow and calculated approach to dating. Let her chase you.
14: Challenge is the key for women
Dovetailing the edge 13, a challenge is a tough concept for many types. They want to call all the time, show her that she likes, and hit other children outside the box. Afraid of a challenge to her because they feel that if disappear, forget them. The disappearance is the way to make her THINK you more. We have a great time on dates with her, laugh and then no contact for 5-9 days between dates. You need to wonder about what to when you're not around. If her face all the time, will disrupt this process.
15: Light and funny
Remember my advice about humor? Women do not want heavy topics you. When you know and you MR. Serious, do you think points, showing your intelligence. All they think is "this man is a Downer." Keep it light. Keep it funny. No Heavy ISSUES.'ll Get much more with women, if you have a light and entertaining way for you.
16: NO you can not have any woman you want
Despite what many internet snake oil sellers tell you, you can not have any woman you want, using the right "moves". You can improve with women who find you physically attractive, but if she likes short dark hair and your children are tall with light hair, then you're out. Remember this, you must pass physical test pull. Period.
17: One opportunity per woman during the life
If a good woman is available and find physically attractive and not hit with severe speech issues with it, then you should get a date. If you refuse, then that meant! I think it is sad when men keep pursuing. If a woman rejects you available, you do not pass the test of physical attraction or did not like something about your personality and will not change that. Move on.
18: Nightclubs are not great places to meet women
I'm not saying it's impossible to meet women here, but you're really at a disadvantage because of loud music. You should be able to talk to her and laugh. Pretty hard to do this when you have to shout to be heard. If you are going to try to compete in a nightclub, learn how to dance and get good at it. If you're a good dancer then the women concerned will find a way to talk to you.
19: Classes and seminars are good
You will find here the women are interested in developing their minds. Best of all? You can talk here. Do not roam around like a dog in heat during the first day of class. Just come back and get the lay of the land. Interested women will start to come around. Of course, if it's only 1 day class or seminar, you will need to approach women of your choice again, just talk to them about what they found interesting. If you pass the test of physical attraction and it is available, then you should be good. If not, NEXT!
20: Speed Dating may be suitable for you
You have about 3 to 8 minutes per woman and you meet women in general 20 per case. These events are primarily physical attraction. However, you can stand out from taking control of the conversation. Sit down, look in her eyes, smile and ask her what she likes best about herself. No other type of request it! You must fill out the conversation to the monitoring questions to answer. If you pass the physical attraction test, then you stand in it.
54 TIPS FOR MAKING WOMEN, tips 21-30
21: Let her do the talking
We want to brag, to tell our accomplishments and key impress. If you were a cowboy in the Old West, which is the equivalent of shooting yourself in the foot in a battle weapon. You are a stranger and for the people, the most interesting topic in the world is THEM. Most everyone wants to tell her that he is the man. It will be different. You should know that you are the man. Meanwhile, let's talk about her life and share a little.
22: Mystery Men take longer than open books
Women love to peel away the layers. If you know the story of your life in the first 20 minutes where the fun in that? When spilled everything about yourself then there is nothing more to learn, to discover. It's like going to a movie to a crawl is at the bottom that tells you how the movie will end. It could be that any fun to watch?
23: Gifts are NOT the key to her heart
Unfortunately, many children see the object of their love and then the shower gifts. He knows he does not win. You know you do not win. All he did was be attractive to you. Plus, most every other guy has realized that he can buy her love. Good women do not respond to gifts early. Surely, if this is your girlfriend, wife or fiancé, then you can give gifts. Until then, forget it. Do not even give her a flower to be your friend.
24: Excessive compliments is not good
He has heard how beautiful is the age of 11. Boring. The charging knight on the white horse from the romance novel off and say how lovely maiden is 100 times? He does not do that. You should not either.
25: Women help you if you like
Good women keen to avoid the break dates excuses why they can not see you, or are difficult to get a hold of. Remember, women who help when they want. Interested women make it clear that they want to be around you. Will be present. It really is not harder than this, but many kids want to rationalize and say "well, this or that happened to her, I'll give her another shot." You are fooling yourself alone.
26: Do not touch the
When guys meet women who want to embrace them, or put his arm around them or be near her. GIVE space. He knows when the right moment to touch. The Grabby kids finally rejected children.
27: Buying a drink is OUT
This is just like giving gifts. Again, they are physically attractive to, is a good woman and available will help you to come and say hello. Buying a $ 10 drink can not change those facts. She likes you or it or not.
28: Leave it to a high
Remember the very funny show Seinfeld; There is an episode where the character George always leaves the room every time he gets a laugh so he can leave on a high. You must do the same. Develop some rapport with her, laugh, get the number and get out. All it will do with the union is about to sell it in not coming with you. Save the rest of the intelligence of your date.
29: It is a process
Having thought over a tad longer, you can not see dating women as a sprint. This is a marathon. You get a complete stranger who is in this world many years without exposing your charms so spoon feed yourself in it. Do not open up very suddenly and quickly and make her believe that you have all understood. Again, remember that she likes a mystery and a challenge!
30: Developing Your mind
I'm not saying that there should be a university professor and I will not go into severe issues with her, but when they involve more than found in the pages of sports, will become a more interesting person for it.
54 TIPS FOR MAKING WOMEN, tips 31-40
31: Wine, cooking or dance classes can be great places
Yes, they attract a large number of women. Very few men. Enough said.
32: nervous guys are not attractive
Good women like to be playful. They like a guy with an easy manner about him. If your behavior is one of the "Yes, what you mean by that?" You will not get very far. I'm not saying that you can roll over and accept only what she says at face value. If you have a different opinion, do not be afraid to express it, but not like a drill sergeant either. Remember, keep it light and keep it funny.
33: Do not be a pushover
The formula is generally pleasant, the only man. I mean, it's okay to agree with her, but if you really have a different mentality, do not be afraid to tell her. We respect you if you fight for what they believe in again, it's a balancing act. You do not want to be overly rigid, but do not want to be too wimpy either. The owner is a guy with his own set of opinions, he knows what he wants, but has a cool way about him.
34: Study of the duck
Ducks look pretty smoothly as they roll across the lake that the crust of bread that you just threw, is not it? Go to the underwater camera and you will see dude paddling like crazy underneath. You my friend are the duck. Perhaps you are super attracted to your heart to jump out of your chest as she punches the number into your phone, but will simply smile and be cool.
35: Do not hang the phone (and this includes text messages)
Dating is a face to face activity. You can not see body language through the phone (or land line, perhaps even exist anymore?). Moreover, too much contact is bad. Remember the mystery and challenge? Charging White Knight in the romance novel does not sit in the meadow next to his horse and have 3 hours chatting with the fair maiden. Neither should you.
36: Social networking is your enemy
When the story of your life is on the social networking site you are, how a mystery and challenge you to be? The more you put in there, so more can be discovered. The more we can discover, the less likely you are to sell to you late. Information is power and you can leave your advantage when you are too much of you sitting out there online for anyone to read.
37: Pay attention to body language when approaching the
Are you looking right at you? Is this helpful? Did her eyes light up while talking? Or is this looking away? Does she seem bored? Often do not have to go through the step of requesting the number, you can see not interested.
38: your ego is your enemy
The same ego that gives you enough confidence to approach can trip you up if you let it control you.
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