The idea of a mature woman or man looking for long-term companionship, perhaps for the second or third time around, is a serious and courageous endeavor that deserves the respect of those who are engaged in professional online matchmaking services.
While researching what’s offered by some of the top online Chinese dating centers, I came across one of the most unusual, perhaps ingenious, concepts to keep “scammers” separated from true seekers of love. A company called China Love Match has a funky place called Scammer Prison, which is a virtual jail for people who are known to not be what they claim, or who request money for services, or have committed other Chinese dating faux pas. You can visit the convicts and read convicted virtual-dating-crime statements. Actually, it sounds like a joke, but it’s not. Those who have landed in prison are after everything except a long-tern committed partner, in some cases they aren’t even individuals but companies who attempt to get credit card information. Nevertheless, the good thing about this set-up is that the Chinese dating outfit that invented it, is making an effort to keep their service clean for people who want to find companionship and love online. As one of the beautiful mature women wrote in her profile, I’m looking for a lifemate.” It’s really that simple.
Chinese Mature Women With A youthful Appearance
Although it’s true that the vast majority of Asian online dating services cater to younger women looking for mature men, the surprising thing about Chinese ladies is their youthful appearance even well into their 30’s and 40’s. While researching what is available and how old the average woman is who searches for love, I noticed something strange. Some of the most elegant and beautiful, fresh and young looking faces, were those of ladies 30 to 40 plus. That doesn’t mean they haven’t used a photo taken when they were younger, but it’s possible they actually look as young as their images. Why do I say this? Because after years of living in Asia, it never ceased to amaze me how impossible it was to guess a woman’s age. I often thought a lady was no more than 20 or 25 when in fact she was quite a bit older. Many Chinese and oriental mature women retain what I call, baby faces. Also, the Chinese and Japanese tendency for older women to still wear their hair in pigtails, use very soft makeup techniques and have very slim physical builds, promotes the illusion of a youthful appearance.
http://directoryprogramming.net/user/Profile.aspx?UserID=35434
http://www.eupa.ca/user/Profile.aspx?UserID=12768
http://regexadvice.com/user/Profile.aspx?UserID=21014
http://www.iptvforums.net/user/Profile.aspx?UserID=22552
http://212.180.3.56/cs/user/Profile.aspx?UserID=13416
http://discussions.blackboard.com/members/dou.glassjdlkmackenzie_4000_gmail.com/default.aspx
http://community.imaginefx.com/members/marissa24.aspx
http://netindonesia.net/members/marissa24.aspx
http://www.yourmarbella.com/marissa24/default.aspx
http://www.travelsupermarket.com/community/members/marissa24.aspx
http://www.lexisnexis.com/COMMUNITY/IDEAS/members/marissa24/default.aspx
http://community.the-hospitalist.org/user/Profile.aspx?UserID=13903
http://big5.cri.cn/gate/big5/enpf.chinabroadcast.cn/TalkChina/user/Profile.aspx?UserID=17793
http://www.thegreengrid.org/Home/Forum/user/Profile.aspx?UserID=21150
http://iflry.org/members/marissa24.aspx
http://www.garagetv.be/marissa24
http://community.nationalbreastcancer.org/members/marissa24/default.aspx
http://uvahoos.com/user/Profile.aspx?UserID=9977
http://communicationsserverteam.com/user/profile.aspx?userid=18067
http://comunidadjde.fronteraglobal.com/user/Profile.aspx?UserID=3081
http://msexchangeteam.com/user/Profile.aspx?UserID=69199
http://mvolo.com/user/Profile.aspx?UserID=4986
http://winecountrywashington.com/cs/members/marissa24.aspx
http://www.avitop.com/cs/user/profile.aspx?userid=26365
http://tamus.edu/apps/blogs/user/profile.aspx?userid=3159
http://www.hometheaterfocus.com/user/Profile.aspx?UserID=71448
Thursday, September 9, 2010
How to Talk to Women
1. Build Rapport
The steps to making women feel comfortable enough to open up to you in conversation involve rapport generation by showing her that you can relate to her. Why is this important? A woman will only talk to a man who is on a level that's higher or equal to hers. This means a smart girl will talk to you if you look and talk like a smart guy. This means she can relax and let herself express what she thinks without inhibitions.
There's a way to make a woman feel close to you even if you've only met her. This method is called mirroring, and it involves copying her reactions. If she's talking in an animated manner, you must also be able to adopt that tone when you dish out your reply. You must also use the words she used. For instance, if she said 'café' to describe a coffee place, use the same word instead of saying 'coffee shop'.
2. Cultivate Trust
Some women are continually unresponsive to men who hit on them because of the fact that they don't want to get hit on. If you meet a woman who looks defensive and on her guard, you shouldn't use pick up lines or any tricks. Here's how to talk to women in a way that will build trust.
Just concentrate on starting a conversation with her and steer away smoothly from pointed questions like 'are you a player' or 'do you say that to all the women you meet?' If you encounter these questions, just tell her to take it easy and change the subject. If you can avoid being defensive yourself, a woman will question her initial assumptions and drop her guard bit by bit. Next, you must get her talking about herself so you can find more things to talk about. As a woman reveals more about her personality, likes and dislikes, her job and her interests, you find more topics to discuss.
3. Don't be obnoxious
There's one thing that you must avoid when talking to women, and this is being obnoxious. First of all, follow the basics of propriety. Say thank you when she gives you a compliment, and say you're sorry when you have to cut the conversation short. One more thing... do not discuss sensitive issues like marital problems (she could have been married in the past) and politics on your first meeting.
The best way to avoid being repulsive is to be a good listener. A woman likes a man who can at least remember her name, so you need to repeat her name when you're leaving or when you're going away for a while (to go to the men's room or to join your friends).
http://directoryprogramming.net/user/Profile.aspx?UserID=35412
http://www.eupa.ca/user/Profile.aspx?UserID=12757
http://regexadvice.com/user/Profile.aspx?UserID=21005
http://www.iptvforums.net/user/Profile.aspx?UserID=22540
http://212.180.3.56/cs/user/Profile.aspx?UserID=13405
http://discussions.blackboard.com/members/douglassjdlkmackenzie_4000_gmail.com/default.aspx
http://community.imaginefx.com/members/jayden09.aspx
http://netindonesia.net/members/jayden09.aspx
http://www.yourmarbella.com/jayden09/default.aspx
http://www.travelsupermarket.com/community/members/jayden09.aspx
http://www.lexisnexis.com/COMMUNITY/IDEAS/members/jayden09/default.aspx
http://community.the-hospitalist.org/user/Profile.aspx?UserID=13892
http://big5.cri.cn/gate/big5/enpf.chinabroadcast.cn/TalkChina/user/Profile.aspx?UserID=17789
http://www.thegreengrid.org/Home/Forum/user/Profile.aspx?UserID=21133
http://iflry.org/members/jayden09.aspx
http://www.garagetv.be/jayden09
http://community.nationalbreastcancer.org/members/jayden09/default.aspx
http://uvahoos.com/user/Profile.aspx?UserID=9970
http://communicationsserverteam.com/user/profile.aspx?userid=18057
http://comunidadjde.fronteraglobal.com/user/Profile.aspx?UserID=3077
http://msexchangeteam.com/user/Profile.aspx?UserID=69178
http://mvolo.com/user/Profile.aspx?UserID=4979
http://winecountrywashington.com/cs/members/jayden09.aspx
http://www.avitop.com/cs/user/profile.aspx?userid=26361
http://tamus.edu/apps/blogs/user/profile.aspx?userid=3154
http://www.hometheaterfocus.com/user/Profile.aspx?UserID=71419
The steps to making women feel comfortable enough to open up to you in conversation involve rapport generation by showing her that you can relate to her. Why is this important? A woman will only talk to a man who is on a level that's higher or equal to hers. This means a smart girl will talk to you if you look and talk like a smart guy. This means she can relax and let herself express what she thinks without inhibitions.
There's a way to make a woman feel close to you even if you've only met her. This method is called mirroring, and it involves copying her reactions. If she's talking in an animated manner, you must also be able to adopt that tone when you dish out your reply. You must also use the words she used. For instance, if she said 'café' to describe a coffee place, use the same word instead of saying 'coffee shop'.
2. Cultivate Trust
Some women are continually unresponsive to men who hit on them because of the fact that they don't want to get hit on. If you meet a woman who looks defensive and on her guard, you shouldn't use pick up lines or any tricks. Here's how to talk to women in a way that will build trust.
Just concentrate on starting a conversation with her and steer away smoothly from pointed questions like 'are you a player' or 'do you say that to all the women you meet?' If you encounter these questions, just tell her to take it easy and change the subject. If you can avoid being defensive yourself, a woman will question her initial assumptions and drop her guard bit by bit. Next, you must get her talking about herself so you can find more things to talk about. As a woman reveals more about her personality, likes and dislikes, her job and her interests, you find more topics to discuss.
3. Don't be obnoxious
There's one thing that you must avoid when talking to women, and this is being obnoxious. First of all, follow the basics of propriety. Say thank you when she gives you a compliment, and say you're sorry when you have to cut the conversation short. One more thing... do not discuss sensitive issues like marital problems (she could have been married in the past) and politics on your first meeting.
The best way to avoid being repulsive is to be a good listener. A woman likes a man who can at least remember her name, so you need to repeat her name when you're leaving or when you're going away for a while (to go to the men's room or to join your friends).
http://directoryprogramming.net/user/Profile.aspx?UserID=35412
http://www.eupa.ca/user/Profile.aspx?UserID=12757
http://regexadvice.com/user/Profile.aspx?UserID=21005
http://www.iptvforums.net/user/Profile.aspx?UserID=22540
http://212.180.3.56/cs/user/Profile.aspx?UserID=13405
http://discussions.blackboard.com/members/douglassjdlkmackenzie_4000_gmail.com/default.aspx
http://community.imaginefx.com/members/jayden09.aspx
http://netindonesia.net/members/jayden09.aspx
http://www.yourmarbella.com/jayden09/default.aspx
http://www.travelsupermarket.com/community/members/jayden09.aspx
http://www.lexisnexis.com/COMMUNITY/IDEAS/members/jayden09/default.aspx
http://community.the-hospitalist.org/user/Profile.aspx?UserID=13892
http://big5.cri.cn/gate/big5/enpf.chinabroadcast.cn/TalkChina/user/Profile.aspx?UserID=17789
http://www.thegreengrid.org/Home/Forum/user/Profile.aspx?UserID=21133
http://iflry.org/members/jayden09.aspx
http://www.garagetv.be/jayden09
http://community.nationalbreastcancer.org/members/jayden09/default.aspx
http://uvahoos.com/user/Profile.aspx?UserID=9970
http://communicationsserverteam.com/user/profile.aspx?userid=18057
http://comunidadjde.fronteraglobal.com/user/Profile.aspx?UserID=3077
http://msexchangeteam.com/user/Profile.aspx?UserID=69178
http://mvolo.com/user/Profile.aspx?UserID=4979
http://winecountrywashington.com/cs/members/jayden09.aspx
http://www.avitop.com/cs/user/profile.aspx?userid=26361
http://tamus.edu/apps/blogs/user/profile.aspx?userid=3154
http://www.hometheaterfocus.com/user/Profile.aspx?UserID=71419
Subscribe to:
Posts (Atom)