When you get right down to it, there are only two dating skills that really matter to men: 1) Knowing Women, 2) Keep the women.
If you can only approach and meet women, has a lot of the game handled. After that, is how to keep women interested in you and attracted to you. Because you have to remember that you will not keep his wife happy, someone is waiting in the wings to give it a shot.
So here are three of the best ways I used to meet women. And anyone can make.
3 Ways to meet women ...
1) Meet women in bars and clubs.
Hi, this works just great for some guys. I say "some" guys, because the truth is you are looking for a girl that is highly unlikely that you will find a bar. Bars are for fast connections. It is the territory of "prong" and the slick players. And the reality is that most women do not go to clubs to meet people. (At least, that's not the main reason for going to bars.)
Women go to bars to have fun. And ... maybe find some guys.
Let's face it: The bars are crowded, noisy, ugly, and overpriced. They take a lot more skill because of the competition. And the reality is you probably will not meet with women who want a stable relationship. But they are a great place to meet single women in a concentrated environment. It's like the supermarket for women's meeting.
2) Meet women in your social network
The reality is that most people want to meet people who are friends of your friends. Women love to meet people who feel they are "safe", and when a friend of one of his friends, already blocked as a proven commodity.
First of all, take your chances.
You have to go to parties any and all your friends to invite in-. Be sure to meet with them for happy hour, or just to spend the weekends. Inevitably, women will come together with your friends only in the possibility that they can find a nice guy.
(They will not say it, but true ...)
Even better is to align a pair of parties to hit the same night so you can find the one with the best opportunities for you. Always give yourself options. Make it a point to meet women in their social network, because that is how women feel more comfortable meeting guys.
3) Meet Women Online
I know this will meet with much controversy, but it may be the best method of the group. If you are not using a dating service online, like Match.com, or something similar, you are missing the easiest method to meet women already invented.
First it is convenient. You can actually stay home and meet women from the comfort of your living room. You can search for women with the same interests, with all the features you prefer. You can also schedule meetings with women you find interesting all in a row. I used to pile up six meetings on a Sunday afternoon only. I could meet women for tea in the morning and be home in time for the game. But here is where most guys go wrong when they try to meet women online: They assume that women will just jump at any chance to meet them.
The harsh reality is that while proving its worth enough to get a woman to overcome his natural fear of strangers to meet you for drinks. And there's a bit of a system to help women during the process of responding to its introduction, following through with a call, and then agrees to meet with you. As a result, most guys close your dating service online within 3 months. Probably going back to try again at a later date, but no more understanding of what women are looking for and what the protocol is for online dating, you probably will fail again and again.
Here are some tips for when you meet women online that can help overcome these problems:
- Remember your first concern: safety.
Women feel safe. After all, it's a great guy, right? You know that, but she is still listening to your friends tell you horror stories about the most outrageous losers they found. The first time you talk on the phone, makes a fun conversation. No heavy stuff. And not even suggest you find it yet. Just take it wanting more. Then end the call at a high point. Call it a day later and suggest a meeting for a coffee or tea for 30 minutes to "see if anything clicks." The most that do are casual, less anxiety than stir the mixture.
- Remember that a woman is not waiting in line is a shortcut to intimacy.
Some guys assume a woman is using a dating service online, you're just ready to blow right past all the formalities and small talk. It's the opposite. She needs to make sure it is legal, safe and fun - and not some psycho. Hey, she is sensible to use a dating service online can imply that you are under your standards - and desperate herself. Then you have to be cool and calm and make it easy to enjoy the process.
Take your time and play the role of reluctant suitor. The less you come across as needy and desperate, the better it will show up - and the more you will be out of the block.
As you can see, there are many ways to meet women, and you must use them all. I have a philosophy for the guys that I call "multiple streams of income female." What this means is that you need to use several different methods to meet women so that: 1) It makes a very important and feel very heavy and serious expectations, and 2) has options to backup in case of a method isn 't working for you.
It's all about protecting your attitude and your confidence when you're out there trying to meet women. Use all opportunities and resources available to you so far more effectively.
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If you can only approach and meet women, has a lot of the game handled. After that, is how to keep women interested in you and attracted to you. Because you have to remember that you will not keep his wife happy, someone is waiting in the wings to give it a shot.
So here are three of the best ways I used to meet women. And anyone can make.
3 Ways to meet women ...
1) Meet women in bars and clubs.
Hi, this works just great for some guys. I say "some" guys, because the truth is you are looking for a girl that is highly unlikely that you will find a bar. Bars are for fast connections. It is the territory of "prong" and the slick players. And the reality is that most women do not go to clubs to meet people. (At least, that's not the main reason for going to bars.)
Women go to bars to have fun. And ... maybe find some guys.
Let's face it: The bars are crowded, noisy, ugly, and overpriced. They take a lot more skill because of the competition. And the reality is you probably will not meet with women who want a stable relationship. But they are a great place to meet single women in a concentrated environment. It's like the supermarket for women's meeting.
2) Meet women in your social network
The reality is that most people want to meet people who are friends of your friends. Women love to meet people who feel they are "safe", and when a friend of one of his friends, already blocked as a proven commodity.
First of all, take your chances.
You have to go to parties any and all your friends to invite in-. Be sure to meet with them for happy hour, or just to spend the weekends. Inevitably, women will come together with your friends only in the possibility that they can find a nice guy.
(They will not say it, but true ...)
Even better is to align a pair of parties to hit the same night so you can find the one with the best opportunities for you. Always give yourself options. Make it a point to meet women in their social network, because that is how women feel more comfortable meeting guys.
3) Meet Women Online
I know this will meet with much controversy, but it may be the best method of the group. If you are not using a dating service online, like Match.com, or something similar, you are missing the easiest method to meet women already invented.
First it is convenient. You can actually stay home and meet women from the comfort of your living room. You can search for women with the same interests, with all the features you prefer. You can also schedule meetings with women you find interesting all in a row. I used to pile up six meetings on a Sunday afternoon only. I could meet women for tea in the morning and be home in time for the game. But here is where most guys go wrong when they try to meet women online: They assume that women will just jump at any chance to meet them.
The harsh reality is that while proving its worth enough to get a woman to overcome his natural fear of strangers to meet you for drinks. And there's a bit of a system to help women during the process of responding to its introduction, following through with a call, and then agrees to meet with you. As a result, most guys close your dating service online within 3 months. Probably going back to try again at a later date, but no more understanding of what women are looking for and what the protocol is for online dating, you probably will fail again and again.
Here are some tips for when you meet women online that can help overcome these problems:
- Remember your first concern: safety.
Women feel safe. After all, it's a great guy, right? You know that, but she is still listening to your friends tell you horror stories about the most outrageous losers they found. The first time you talk on the phone, makes a fun conversation. No heavy stuff. And not even suggest you find it yet. Just take it wanting more. Then end the call at a high point. Call it a day later and suggest a meeting for a coffee or tea for 30 minutes to "see if anything clicks." The most that do are casual, less anxiety than stir the mixture.
- Remember that a woman is not waiting in line is a shortcut to intimacy.
Some guys assume a woman is using a dating service online, you're just ready to blow right past all the formalities and small talk. It's the opposite. She needs to make sure it is legal, safe and fun - and not some psycho. Hey, she is sensible to use a dating service online can imply that you are under your standards - and desperate herself. Then you have to be cool and calm and make it easy to enjoy the process.
Take your time and play the role of reluctant suitor. The less you come across as needy and desperate, the better it will show up - and the more you will be out of the block.
As you can see, there are many ways to meet women, and you must use them all. I have a philosophy for the guys that I call "multiple streams of income female." What this means is that you need to use several different methods to meet women so that: 1) It makes a very important and feel very heavy and serious expectations, and 2) has options to backup in case of a method isn 't working for you.
It's all about protecting your attitude and your confidence when you're out there trying to meet women. Use all opportunities and resources available to you so far more effectively.
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