The word "club" usually causes an emotional response from men. I can understand why, because it's generally a zero-sum game for most men. Most men go to nightclubs to meet women, so if you go out and come home with empty hands, they feel like they were not successful. For inexperienced male or a lack of confidence, nightclubs may be one of the most intimidating settings. Now add the extra variable that want to meet women there, adds fuel to the flames of fear. For some people, they just know the scene, nightclub and I think is the best place to connect and meet women. For others it is an unfamiliar place with strange social norms. For others it is a party have never gone and prefer to stay away from. I have friends who fit the categories and then some.
If you want to learn how to pick up women in nightclubs, then we must understand both the reality and the fantasy elements of nightclubs. Part fantasy is that men know that nightclubs, especially the "hot" they have more attractive women at a party, then almost any other public place. Some clubs actually go out of their way to keep the female to male ratio as close to 50/50 as possible because they know if there are more women then men patrons will come. Attractive women rule the nightclub scene, but there is no reason why you can not too.
Nightclubs can be a lot of fun because there is a drinking, dancing, and young people. Now let's take a look at the reality of meeting women in nightclubs. A woman spends an average of 2 hours getting ready before going out to a nightclub. The last time I took so long to get ready was when I had a water leak in my bathroom!
Why do women spend so much time grooming? There are many reasons for this, but a very common one is that they know there will be other attractive women there and know that we must look much better themselves if they are to get any attention from men. The men usually go to nightclubs to connect, while women usually go to nightclubs to have fun with their friends and seek validation from men. There is a small percentage of women who go to nightclubs to hook up with the most "hot" guy, but most women do not go there for that.
There is one other thing to consider when going to nightclubs to meet women. Not in the real world. Most people who go there go to break, burn some steam and have a good time. Many of the women who go to nightclubs will be there to seek validation, to get their egos stroked, are now partying, and generally there have a good time. You have to keep this in mind when you set out for a night out. Finding Ms. Right is not an easy task. I'm throwing this out there so you can see the reality of nightclubs as this will help you stay focused on having a good time (which should be your # 1 goal anyway, is not to connect or just getting phone numbers ).
I have met some fantastic women in nightclubs, because I know how to solve the freaks, the flakes, and attention whores. A major mistake that men make when they want to meet women in nightclubs that go there with an agenda. This agenda is usually to jump, hook, or find a girlfriend. The problem with this mindset that leads to poor and sometimes desperate behavior. I see many people walk into a nightclub and their main purpose is the extent of his talent. They must learn how to be more subtle about it. Another poor behavior is walking up a woman and offering to buy her a drink. Wait a cotton-pickin 'minute .... it has not done anything yet to deserve a free drink yet.
Never buy a woman I know just one drink, has won the first, having a two-way interaction with me. So, when I walk by it and its approach can be as simple as saying "Hi, my name is Rod and yours is?"
I am special to see if it will be interesting enough for me to stay. Men usually do it the other way around, where they try to impress or be bribed with an offer for a free drink. Women know this really hot and they even come with lame rules like "we never pay for drinks." I have to many attractive women who range from college coeds corporate women and most of them had similar rules.
An attractive woman knows that he can go out at night and never have to pay for a drink or even pay to gain entry. To meet women in nightclubs should learn how to stand out. A powerful way to stand out is to do your research before you go to a nightclub.
Find out who owns the club, read reviews about it online on sites like Yelp.com, and when you do go, appear early and meet people door and other staff. I go to new clubs, even from my second visit, I have people calling me my name, because it gave them a big nose, bothered to learn their names, and even called over her apartment I am a "happy hour" or mixer.
When your staff knows how to make a big impression on the women there, because it naturally increases social position. They assume that you are somebody important.
The # 1 thing you can do in a nightclub setting is to go there with two goals in mind: to have fun and meet new people. It's really that simple. When they appear, grab a drink of your choice, walk around the nightclub once or twice just to see what happens, and then find a spot and get ready to mingle.
One technique is to use while walking around the nightclub is to make a few observations in different groups of girls. You can even ask how they do and they are fun. Just give you the answers you can say "Great!" and then walk away, letting them know who you are. This sets up nice to talk to them later.
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