How to Talk to Women

1. Build Rapport

The steps to making women feel comfortable enough to open up to you in conversation involve rapport generation by showing her that you can relate to her. Why is this important? A woman will only talk to a man who is on a level that's higher or equal to hers. This means a smart girl will talk to you if you look and talk like a smart guy. This means she can relax and let herself express what she thinks without inhibitions.

There's a way to make a woman feel close to you even if you've only met her. This method is called mirroring, and it involves copying her reactions. If she's talking in an animated manner, you must also be able to adopt that tone when you dish out your reply. You must also use the words she used. For instance, if she said 'café' to describe a coffee place, use the same word instead of saying 'coffee shop'.

2. Cultivate Trust

Some women are continually unresponsive to men who hit on them because of the fact that they don't want to get hit on. If you meet a woman who looks defensive and on her guard, you shouldn't use pick up lines or any tricks. Here's how to talk to women in a way that will build trust.

Just concentrate on starting a conversation with her and steer away smoothly from pointed questions like 'are you a player' or 'do you say that to all the women you meet?' If you encounter these questions, just tell her to take it easy and change the subject. If you can avoid being defensive yourself, a woman will question her initial assumptions and drop her guard bit by bit. Next, you must get her talking about herself so you can find more things to talk about. As a woman reveals more about her personality, likes and dislikes, her job and her interests, you find more topics to discuss.

3. Don't be obnoxious

There's one thing that you must avoid when talking to women, and this is being obnoxious. First of all, follow the basics of propriety. Say thank you when she gives you a compliment, and say you're sorry when you have to cut the conversation short. One more thing... do not discuss sensitive issues like marital problems (she could have been married in the past) and politics on your first meeting.

The best way to avoid being repulsive is to be a good listener. A woman likes a man who can at least remember her name, so you need to repeat her name when you're leaving or when you're going away for a while (to go to the men's room or to join your friends).


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